How to Solve Common Book Club
Challenges: Part I

What are some of the more difficult tasks book clubs face? Choosing what to read may top the list followed by how to organize the discussion and whether to have a leader, what to do with a disruptive member, and deciding where to meet.
There are good resources to resolve these problems, and one we suggest
is the New York Public Library Guide to Reading Groups http://www.amazon.com/Public-Library-Guide-Reading-Groups/dp/0517883570 ). But, in the next few blog posts, we will offer some of our own suggestions on ways to meet these issues head on with strategies for implementation.

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Interestingly enough, Gore Vidal told Christopher Hitchens that the three most dispiriting words in the English language were “Joyce Carol Oatesâ€. You have to wonder if Oates’ dark view of men and her perpetual theme of the exploitation of women inspired Vidal’s remark. However, Oates generates much discussion and is not a universally loved writer of fiction.

But, you have to admire a writer who has won almost every major prize, including the National Book Award. She teaches at Princeton University, where young Jonathan Safran Foer was her student. She makes speaking appearances, and she contributes short pieces to magazines, including Narrative and the New Yorker. She’s very busy — and she produces more work (I think more than 37 novels to date) than seems humanly possible. (LA Times).

And, who is more adept at describing the dark undercurrents of adolescent sexuality? Her 2007 novel, The Gravedigger’s Daughter, centers on Rebecca, who is thrust into the world after her deranged father kills her mother and then himself with a shotgun. Rebecca’s two older brothers abandoned the family before the murder-suicide, leaving Rebecca alone in the world. Although she is taken in by her teacher who tries desperately to make a Christian out of her, the sixteen year old Rebecca winds up cleaning rooms at the George Washington Hotel. It is here that she meets Niles Tignor, a stranger that Rebecca innocently believes will marry her and carry her to a better life. Sadly, more violence awaits poor Rebecca, from which she seems unable to escape.

In her much anthologized story with a similar theme “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” Joyce Carol Oates explores the turmoil that characterizes the life of another adolescent girl. The main character is a typically rebellious teenager named Connie. She is contemptuous of adult authority and decides to forego a family outing to stay home and wash her hair. Now vulnerable to danger lurking in the adult world, Arnold Friend shows up at her front door. He taunts her and threatens to kill her family if she doesn’t leave her home with him. In the end, she joins him, and the reader is all too aware of the fate that awaits her in this dark story.

So, why should women read Joyce Carol Oates? In the end, is the draw of her fiction much like that of a bad car accident–it’s just too hard not to look? This is surely an oversimplification of a woman writer who has a guaranteed place in the canon of American literature.

What do you think? What novels or short stories have you read and how did you react to them? Has your book club read any Oates? Let other smart women hear your opinion on the writer that led Vidal to make such a wicked statement.

So, what exactly do smart women read?

Smart women are reading Nicole Krauss. And, she surely is one to watch.

In her debut novel (which is nothing short of stunning) Man Walks Into A Room, she introduces the theme of memory and loss through the provocative story of a man who is found wandering in the Nevada desert. A small brain tumor is responsible for his amnesia, but its removal does not restore his memory. The tragic story is summarized by Samson Greene’s thoughts: “The forgetting was beyond his control…. It angered him to have so little choice in his own fate—to go to sleep in the liberty of childhood and wake up twenty-four years later in a life he had nothing to do with, surrounded by people who expected him to be someone he felt he’d never been.â€

In dazzling sentences like: “Somewhere many  miles away, in the heart of the desert, a man was recording memories, preserving them as another desert air once preserved scrolls of parchment. Creating a vast library of human memory, and so that library should not be lost–so that is should not combust in fire of vanish into dust and light–he was learning how to inscribe those memories in the one place they were ensured survival: in the minds of other people,†Krauss introduces the themes that will anchor (and become both her and her readers’ obsession) and her two subsequent novels, The History of Love and Great House.

Both History of Love and Great House are must reads for smart women. In both novels, Krauss explores her central themes using four distinct storylines. Great House, as described below, is a complex yet gratifying tale of isolation and connection and of the pull of the past as it interferes with the present. Neither of the novels are ‘easy’ reads, so be prepared to do some heavy lifting. But, in the end, it will have been worth the effort.

What does it mean to be a responsible reader? And, when is it okay to put a book aside because it just isn’t working for you?

Our book club had to confront these questions this summer as we tried to plow through David Foster Wallace’s Infinite Jest. We made the commitment to read the book at our final session of the season. We knew that it would take the better part of the summer to get through it, but we really wanted to tackle the 1,000 pages and see why it is considered one of the best contemporary novels. But, sometime in July, email messages started going back and forth.

One of our members, a dedicated and very smart reader, wrote: “I would be relieved to not feel obligated to continue reading Infinite Jest. It is so depressing. Sometimes it’s just easier to stop. I find myself reading 20-30 pages and then going on to read something else and then going back to it out of obligation. It’s difficult, like listening to stream of consciousness from someone not quite sane and personally distasteful to me. I keep hoping it will get better for me but after your reply to me I realize I am not alone in my reaction to the book.â€

Last night, when we reconvened for our 2011-2012 season, we discussed what our aversion to this book means and, as a responsible reader, when it is ok to put aside a book without finishing it. In the end, we decided that if reading feels too much like work and that sitting with a book brings about feelings of dread, then these are clear signs that it is time to change course.

What do you think? When have you decided to put a book aside? Let’s hear what you have to say about this book lover’s conundrum.